
Mickey age 3 in St. Paul

Irving, Fannie and Mickey

High School graduation c. 1938

Portrait on the day they got their
marriage license 1942

Wedding day
May 24, 1942




Mickey (pregnant with Alan) holding Susan 1943
Mildred Peretz was born on January 22, 1921, on her sister Etta's 11th birthday. That coincidence along with their mutual affinity for books, theatre and opera led the sisters to become best friends. Mildred became "Mickey" very early in her life the result of her sister Evey's attempts to say "Mishka," Mickey's Jewish name.
Mickey was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother and for most of her life was a working mom.
In her last position as the supervisor of the word processing department in a major law firm, she "learned computers" and kept up each time the technology changed.
All the while Mickey made the most amazing chocolate chip cookies, date and nut bread, apple cake, stuffed cabbage, and breast of veal along with knitting beautiful sweaters for her children and grandchildren and their friends. Her secret ingredient in everything she did for her family she always said was love.
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Her relationship with Julie was (as her grandson said) "the love affair of the century" that began when they met on the beach in 1935. They were partners in life who created a loving family with strong traditions that live on today.
Honeymoon Bass Lake, Indiana
Mickey, Julie, Evey, David, Barbara, Mary, Joey, Julie, and Edna 1943



Meeting Alan

Camp Croft, SC 1942


Julie St. Malo, France August 28, 1944


Etta, Alan and Mickey
Mickey and Julie at home in Canarsie c. 1948
After the war: Mickey, Julie and Alan
Mickey and Alan c. 1948

Alan and Dorrie 1948

Dorrie, Mickey and Alan c. 1950

Dorrie and Alan c. 1951

On vacation c. 1952

c. 1952

Trying out for Family Feud
Louie, Mickey, Blanche, Evey and Julie




Grandchildren: Matt, Jon, Seth and Nina





New mom Dorrie with Jonathan 1973
Jonathan holding his new baby sister Nina with Papa
Jonathan and Nina




Dorrie, Jonathan, Nina
Nanny, Papa, Seth, Matthew
Alan, Seth, Matt 1980

Seth

Matthew, Papa, Jonathan, Nanny, Nina and Seth

Jonathan, Dorrie, Julie, Nina, Mickey and Jeffrey 1993
Nanny and Papa 1986
Seth, Nina, Matthew, Jonathan




Julie's 85th Birthday
Julie's 80th – Alan, Seth, Matt, Nina, Dorrie, Jeffrey, Jonathan , Mickey and Julie 1999

1993
2005 Seattle Jon's Commissioning


Chanukah at Nanny and Papa's: Bagels and spinning the dreydel for presents 2005


With her first great-grandchildren, AbbeyRose and Julian 2009

Nanny, Jon, Julian

New dads grandsons Seth and Jonathan 2009

60th Anniversary 2002

Blanche, Mickey, and Alan
Jon and Katie's wedding Dallas 2006

Nanny, Katie, and Jon
Brunch after the wedding

Visiting Katie and Jon in Alabama 2006


Heather and AbbeyRose


New Nana at Julian's bris
New Grampa Jeffrey and Julian

Seth, new Papa Alan,
AbbeyRose

Aunt Nina and Julian

Uncle Matt and AR

New Grandma Carol and AR


Blanche, Susan, Mickey 2009

Jon, Julian, Katie, Jack, Heather,
Cassidy, Seth, AbbeyRose 2011

Jon, Julian, Nina, AbbeyRose and Seth

Nana at Jack's bris


Alan and Carol
Jeffrey and Dorrie



Jon and Katie Nina and Jon
at Matt and Sam's wedding

Jon, Julian and Jack at "daddy's museum"
Nanny and Nina

Jack!


Julian!

AbbeyRose!



Cassidy!
Oklahoma home owners
Jack and Katie

Evie!

Nana and Grampa with Julian and Jack
Oklahoma 2016

Israel 2015: Susan, Dorrie, Jeffrey

Prague 2016: Katie, Nina, Jonathan, Dorrie, Jeffrey

Long distance NY Rangers fans
Julian and Jack

Mother's Day Dorrie and Nina
Katie, Julian, Jonathan, Jack

Nina and Josh

Sam, Matt, Heather, Seth
AbbeyRose, Cassidy, Evie 2015
Sam, Matt, Jack

Bernsteins in Brooklyn 2016
Left: Nina, Jeffrey Katie, Jack
Right: Julian, Dorrie, Jonathan

AbbeyRose, Cassidy, Evie 2017
Over the years our family has grown and changed, with Julie (Papa) leaving us in 2006 and Mickey (Nanny) in 2010. But our family continues to grow from the original nuclear family of Mickey, Julie, Alan and Dorrie. Alan and Carol's family has grown to include Heather and Seth and their three girls: AbbeyRose, Cassidy, and Evie, and Samantha and Matthew are expecting their first child in July 2018. Dorrie and Jeffrey's family has grown to include Nina and Josh, and Katie and Jonathan and their children: Julian and Jack. Family cats include: Griffin and Lola in Nina's home, Sammy in Katie and Jon's home and Sophie in Dorrie and Jeffrey's home. Sam and Matt have a beloved family dog, Jack. Family holidays remain important as they bring us together to eat those same foods we ate at Mickey and Julie's table as we share our memories.

AbbeyRose, Cassidy, Evie, Seth




Nana (Dorrie) and Julian making hamentaschen in Oklahoma
Fannie's pot
We still make our gefilte fish in it
Passover seder with plague masks at
Dorrie and Jeffrey's house
Chanukah candle lighting at Matt and Sam's
Seth and AbbeyRose

In his retirement, Julie became a watercolor artist.